You started out with taking care of yourself by meditating and getting dressed, then you said good morning and served him coffee and asked him about dinner all these things are melting away the anger and tension if it is after an argument, if it is a normal day you are simply dropping subtle messages on what he has to look forward to when he comes home.
Step Four: Positive thinking and visualizations
The scriptures states “And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. “Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise.” (Philippians 4:8 NLT)
What you focus on is what you will create. If you want that beautiful happy family you must be willing to focus on that and not the problem.
My husband is infatuated with my breast and satisfied with my love he desires no one else but me! Say this affirmation daily! You can find those same words from Song of Songs chapter in various chapters which I put together in my own words. Our words are very powerful! And what you speak if you speak it enough will eventually come to pass. I started saying this affirmation before I even met my husband! Now that I am happily married I continue to say it because I want it to remain this way. It is not some hocus pocus! He married me and he is supposed to be into me and no one else. Therefore, I speak words that will produce healthy results! In addition, I also say it in reverse! That I am infatuated with him and satisfied with his love! Please keep in mind however, in everything is balance. NOTHING I MEAN NOTHING COMES BEFORE THE LOVE I HAVE FOR THE MESSIAH YESHUA my lord and savior! You are to put nothing before him.
To get more affirmations regarding how to have and maintain a healthy relationship… you can read my Little red book which details all I did and continue to do for my relationship and We are extremely happy!
“I am my lovers the one he desires” (Songs of Songs 7:10)
You now have four steps to keep your husband running home to you and not the arms of another woman. I have been doing these steps daily since I met my husband and am happily married. If you like what you have read please share the message with your loved ones especially if they have a challenging relationship. I know that these steps are essential in maintaining a happy marriage.
Stay tuned for step 5.